Sex Toys in a relationship the Pros and Cons
Let's face it sex is a fundamental need that we all feel although some more than others. So when that initial passion and excitement that comes with being in a new relationship cools, some people turn to sex aids to add new sparkle into your sex life but is it always the right thing for a relationship or can it sometimes be an added pressure.
Pros of sex toys
There is no denying it, people would not be buying them if they didn't stimulate like they do. Quite often they hit the erogenous spots like nothing else and there is nothing more sexy than a partner who is turned on and able to please.
They can add a bit of fun into your sex life as there are sex aids that stimulate both partners together like vibrating cockrings so that incredible feeling you get when you are both climaxing is intensified.
At some time in every relationship, sex needs a bit of a boost to keep it exciting and sex toys can be the perfect way to do this.
They can make you both more aware of each others bodies as you explore and bring you closer.
They can improve sexual health as a dildo can improve a womens vaginal tone aswell as the general awareness of your body means you will notice any abnormal lumps.
Cons to sex toys
If both partners are not wanting to try them they can be an added pressure on the sexual relationship. You have to choose an appropriate toy for both of you as you should both feel comfortable.
What if someone finds it? There are a lot of discreet toys on the market like a vibrator in the shape of a lipstick or quite unusual shapes that most wouldn't even recognise.
If you do not know how to maintain your aid it can lead to sexual health issues so best keep them clean as per the manufacturers instructions.
Some worry that they will not want their partner if they get a more intensive orgasm from a sex aid. This is not true as the intimacy gained from introducing a sex toy to a healthy relationship is a good way to keep things new. People do not tend to choose masturbation over the intimacy being with a partner.
It feels like a failing in the relationship if you need to introduce toys. Far from that it is a healthy sign that you are both willing to share this intimate adventure.
In conclusion, it is healthy if both partners are happy in the sex toy choosen and both feel ready and comfortable with using it. If one partner is not so keen then it is wise to talk it through and when you are both ready choose together, go slow and enjoy.
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